About the radical realist forum

Most conversations about the breakdown of society begin with a sermon.

You are told, at length and with feeling, what you should believe, how you should behave, and why your disengagement is a failing.

This doesn’t work, because withdrawal is not laziness or a moral failing. It is a rational response to a society that has stopped engaging with you while at the same time providing the tools (technology) for your own disengagement.

This forum provides a platform based on a different premise.

People will not rejoin communities because they are told to.
They will rejoin when they perceive society values them and initiates reciprocity by providing something they actually want, on terms that respect who they are rather than who they ought to be.

That is not society being defeated, it is recognition that only through reciprocity can a positive result ever be achieved.

So here is the one golden rule. No “shoulds” are allowed that apply to humans (OK for systems and processes though).

Bring evidence, bring an argument, bring a plan that works on people as they are.

Tell us what would actually make reconnection worth choosing.
Not what a better person would already have chosen.

Everything else is just moralising to make the proposer feel better or superior and won’t work.

The Radical Realist Forum is where the plan for reconnection gets built, tested and argued over, in public, by people willing to be pragmatic about a problem so many insist on being didactic about

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Clear thinking

The Radical Realist forum is a place for rigorous thinking, pragmatic innovation, practical civic strategies, and the development of blueprints that turn the tide of public disengagement into measurable, accountable change.

Proven change

The premise

Ideas sharpened. Claims tested. Change demonstrated.

The method

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Community Guidelines

This forum exists to work out how society can pre-empt reciprocity with people who have disengaged from it, on the strength of what actually moves people rather than what a moral case says ought to. One standard governs every post.

Start from “what is”, not “what should be”.
A contribution has to describe a mechanism (what people currently do, and why) or propose one (what would incentivise them to act differently).
- “People should care more about their neighbours” is not an argument.
- “People care about their neighbours when there is a low cost, visible way to reciprocate, and withdraw when there is not” is.

The word “should” (plus its preachy relations) is the tripwire. Posts and replies built on should, ought, or must, in the moralising sense, will be rejected or returned for a rewrite. This is not about tone policing. It is about refusing the easiest, laziest form of argument there is.

Disagreement is welcome. Certainty about what other people are morally obliged to feel or do is not.